DJ/Band and Photographer

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The DJ can sometimes be a sore spot when it comes to wedding and commitment ceremonies. Choose a DJ with experience. Select a play list that tailors to both your tastes and the palate of your guests. Decide on a photographer with experience and be clear about what you expect. It helps to choose a DJ and photographer that are comfortable in a gay atmosphere. Word of mouth recommendations are always best.

 

Limousine Services

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Think about how you will arrive at the ceremony and to the reception. Check your local listings for a limousine company or for the cost conscious, solicit a friend with a really nice car to chauffeur you around for the day.

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Rings and Jewelry

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Traditionally, partners purchase each other engagement rings and then exchange commitment rings during the ceremony. These are physical expressions of your lasting love. You can rings, bracelets, necklaces or any other symbol of your commitment.

 

Attire

 

You and your partner have complete control over the atmosphere and formality of your ceremony. Agree on attire that best fits your vision of the ceremony. You can marry in tuxedos, suits, formal wear or even casual dress. However, if renting tuxedos be sure to reserve them at least 3 months in advance (keeping in mind their busy seasons- school dances and proms, etc.) If you have a traditional wedding party (bridesmaids and groomsmen) make sure you communicate the expected attire at least 3 months in advance. Many tuxedo rental stores offer package deals for wedding parties

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Wedding Cake

 

Have you always dreamed of eating a multiple layer wedding cake or do you simple want a sheet cake with you and your sweetheart's names? Take ample time to discuss what type of cake you want. Also, call your local bakery at least 2-3 months in advance to be sure the cake is ready to be delivered to your reception

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Florist

 

Floral arrangements take time to prepare and can sometimes be costly. Budget at least 10% on flowers. Contact your florist of choice for recommendations on seasonal arrangements, prices and time to delivery.

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Honeymoon

 

Plan a romantic getaway for just you and your partner. Choose a location and activities that fit your tastes and budget. Honeymoons can range from a weekend in a local hotel suite to cruises and trips to exotic islands. Book hotels and cruises at least 10-12 months before your ceremony.